Tuesday, April 19, 2011

cosmetic facial treatment

Ladies, and/or submissives,
I am going to be spending almost a week with Katie over the Easter holiday. While there I would love to give her a facial as a gift. However, I have never given one. In fact, I've never seen one given.  Furthermore, I would like to give her a facial that incorporates natural ingredients into the cleansing, exfoliating, mask and moisturizing.

I come to you all with hands open and arms extended - begging, pleading, hoping, - well maybe not stooping that low - but hoping others will post their tried and true suggestions as to what and how I should do this.  I've also looked into aromatherapy as an adjunct as I want to make this a really cool experience and one that she wants me to do again.

Please post thoughts - I have lots of viewers but few commenters.  There is a lot of knowledge out there and on this one, I could use some helpful hints.
Until later,


  1. Have to laugh, initially I thought you meant something else. Go to "youtube" and Google "how to give a facial" you will find all the instruction you require. Good luck.

  2. Love Wife,
    Get your mind out of the gutter!!! lol. I need a new title. I'm open to ideas in that area as well.

  3. You could call it "cosmetic facial treatment", I guess.
    I must confess that my mind was in the gutter, too, or rather, I hadn't come across the cosmetic meaning of the word, before. And I don't have much experience with the treatment either, I'm afraid.

  4. Tamara,
    Thanks for the word choice. I took your advice and made the change. Now you need to have someone give you a cosmetic facial treatment and see if you enjoy it as well. After all, what's a domme's life for but to enjoy the fruits of your subs services :)

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  6. What a wonderful idea :)

    Here are some ideas for you for natural homemade facials :) they can vary according to skin type, but this may help to get you started . . .

    Avocado Facial Recipe

    Avocado is a naturally rich moisturizer. Mash the meat of the avocado into a creamy texture. Massage into the face and neck . Leave on for 15 minutes and gently rinse off.

    Facial Mask Recipe

    Squeeze half a lemon and mix the juice with one beaten egg white. Leave on your face overnight or, for a quick pick-me-up, just 15 minutes. Splash warm water on your face to rinse.

    It helps to removes blotches, because the lemon works as a bleaching agent.

    Lighten Circles Under Eyes Recipe

    To lighten dark circles under your eyes, wrap a grated raw potato in cheesecloth and apply to eyelids for 15-20 minutes. Wipe off residue and apply an eye cream.

    TBC . . .

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    Egg & Honey Mask Recipe

    Mix together 1 tablespoon honey, 1 egg yolk, 1/2 teaspoon almond oil and 1 tablespoon yogurt. Honey stimulates and smooths, egg and almond oil penetrate and moisturize, and yogurt refines and tightens pores.

    Egg, Avocado;Mud Facial Mask Recipe

    Clay is available in powder form at any health food store. Mix 1 tablespoon dry clay with 1 egg yolk, 1/4 of a mashed avocado and enough witch hazel to create a smooth mixture. Mud dries excess sebum while the egg yolk and avocado replenish lost moisture. Witch hazel tones.

    Facial Exfoliater Recipe

    ◦2 heaped tsp fine oatmeal
    ◦1 tsp. baking soda
    Combine ingredients, and add enough water to make a paste. Apply to skin and rub gently. Rinse and gently pat dry.

    Banana Wrinkle Fighter Recipe

    Banana is wonderful as an anti-wrinkle treatment. Mash 1/4 banana until very creamy. Spread all over face and leave for 15-20 minutes before rinsing off with warm water followed by a dash of cold. Gently pat dry.

    Grape Cleanser Recipe

    Grape juice makes an excellent cleanser for any skin type. Simply split one or two large grapes, remove pips and rub the flesh over face and neck. Rinse off with cool water.

    Oily Skin Mask Recipe

    Mix 1 tsp. brewer’s yeast with enough natural yogurt to make a thin mixture. Pat this thoroughly into all the oily areas and allow it to dry on the skin. After 15 – 20 minutes, rinse off with warm water, then cool water and blot dry.

    continued again . . .

  8. continued for the last time LOL

    Another nice thing is washing her hair, here are some natural homemade recipes for that too

    Recipes For Shiny Hair

    To give your hair a great shine and help remove soap build up.
    Blondes — Add a couple of tablespoons of lemon juice to your rinse water. Brunettes and Redheads — Add a couple of tablespoons of apple cider vinegar to your rinse water.Stir 1 teaspoon honey into 4 cups (1 quart) warm water. After shampooing, pour mixture through hair. Do not rinse out. Dry as normal.

    Fruit Smoothie Hair Mask

    Blend 1/2 a banana, 1/4 cantaloupe, 1/4 avocado, 1 tablespoon wheat germ oil and 1 tablespoon yogurt. For extra conditioning, squeeze in the contents of a vitamin E capsule. Leave in hair for 15 minutes.

    Honey; Olive Oil Hair Mask

    Mix 1/2 cup honey and 3 tablespoons olive oil. Work a small amount at a time through hair until coated. Cover hair with a shower cap; leave on 30 minutes. Shampoo well and rinse.

    Dandruff Treatment

    Boil 7 heaping tablespoons dried thyme in 2 cups water for 10 minutes. Strain and cool. Pour 1/2 mixture over clean, damp hair. Massage into scalp, do not rinse. Use the rest of the solution another day.

    Yogurt Hair Mask

    Beat 1 egg white until foamy. Add to 6 tablespoons plain natural yogurt. Apply to hair in small sections at a time. Leave in for 15 minutes. Rinse.

    Egg & Olive Oil Hair Mask

    Mix two whole eggs with four tablespoons of olive oil. Smooth through hair. Wrap head with plastic wrap, and leave in hair for 10 minutes. Rinse well.

    Homemade Conditioners

    The recipes below are from creativehomemaking.com.
    Mayonnaise is a great conditioner for dry hair. Depending on the length of your hair, apply approximately 1/2 cup of mayonnaise to your dry hair. Work into hair really well and then cover your hair with a plastic bag, allowing to set for about 15 minutes. Rinse thoroughly and then shampoo as usual.

    In a blender or food processor, combine 2 1/2 tablespoons dried milk, 1 tablespoon wheat germ oil, and 1 egg. Apply evenly to hair and let set for at least an hour. Shampoo and style as usual.

    Hair Setting Lotions

    Try dissolving a teaspoon of gelatin in a cup of warm water and use this as a setting lotion before styling hair. You can use this as a liquid or chill it and use it as a gel.

    Dissolve 1 teaspoon sugar in 1 cup warm water and apply to damp hair before styling.

    Combine 4 tablespoons olive oil and 2 tablespoons honey in a glass jar with a lid and shake until well blended. Let mixture sit for 3 to 4 days, and shake it occasionally. Rub mixture evenly into dry hair and wrap hair in plastic wrap, letting set for at least an hour. Shampoo as usual.

    Mix together 2 tablespoons vegetable oil and 1 egg. Apply to hair and let set for about an hour. Shampoo as usual.

    To help a flaky scalp, warm 2 to 3 tablespoons vegetable oil in the microwave (make sure it’s not too hot!) and then gently apply to scalp with cotton balls. Let set for at least an hour and then shampoo as usual.

    And here is a site that is well worth checking out


    it includes natural recipes for lots of beauty treatments as well as how to use essential oils which if not used correctly can be dangerous for the skin.

    Hope this helps and I am sure that Katie will enjoy such pampering!

    Kind Regards, Kat