- Surprise her with a bouquet of flowers - purchased, picked fresh from a field or even just a single stem rose.
- Unexpectedly surprise her at work, at home, or at some time when she knows you made a special effort just to see her - even if it is just for a few minutes.
- Give her a body massage or sit at her feet and massage her while she relaxes, watches TV or converses with you.
- Give her a kiss just because you know she will love you kissing her
- Give her a kiss on the back of the head while waiting in line at a check out.
- Tell her she looks beautiful, that you love her, or that you are hers, especially around others that could hear. A nice time to do this might be while in a department store, while at a resturant, while having a drink or while out with others.
- Spontaneously take her out for a meal, or plan ahead and let her know that you want to take her out.
- Ask her if you can get her a glass of wine.
- Sit on the deck and talk by candlelight. Pull up your chair to face her and thereby let her know that you are fully devoting your attention on her. Place a leg on her chair so she can touch it if she is one that enjoys that - something I know Katie enjoys doing.
- Sit or kneel behind her and give her a neck massage while she watches TV or comb her hair.
- Be intentional about holding her hand, walking with your arm around her, or offering your arm for her to hold while out in public.
- Carry her purse.
- Push the shopping cart.
- Apply cologne just to make your scent more attractive to her.
- Get her towel ready prior to her showering. Wait for her to get out and wrap it around her.
- Offer to shave and/or bathe her if that is something she would enjoy.
- Fix her a meal in bed.
Wednesday, October 12, 2011
By nature, one of the core expectations of a submissive is the demonstration of adoration toward his dominant partner. A core function of the submissive is the relinguishing of self-status and expressing a desire for the woman to be dominant, superior, in-charge, and in essence, more important than ones' self.
I spent a bit of time thinking about this during the past week or so and wrote down thoughts as they came to mind as to how I can demonstrate Katie's superiority over me by showing her adoration. I'm sure the below list could be lenthened quite a bit more but here are some ways that I feel that I can demonstrate the fact that she is the one that owns me by expressing adoration and in the process, demonstrate to her in tangible ways that I am hers - ready and willing to please in innumerable ways. I'd love to hear your thoughts and comments. Enjoy.