1. I was standing listening to a band one summers' eve. I had my arm around her neck hugging her tightly. I felt honored and proud to be with her and loved showing public affection knowing others were watching.
2. One evening Katie hosted a party for about ten friends. At one point I started to sit in a chair not near her and she said for all to hear "don't you dare even think about sitting there!" I stopped instantly just as I was about to recline and suddenly stood. I apologized in front of all and moved to sit at her side where I should have sat in the first place. She pushed my submissive button, and although others didn't know how we relate, they definitely reacted in surprise - just as I did. Nevertheless, I was so proud to be next to her the entire night and in hindsight what she did made me proud that others knew that I was hers.
3 A month or so later Katie hosted another dinner event on a hot, hot evening this past summer. We stayed inside enjoying the company of one another. As the party wound down I began the process of cleaning up the mess while Katie talked with two men nearby. I was about finished with the dishes and cleaning of the counter when one of the men said to me, "you are going to make a woman a fine housewife someday". I smiled, not saying much but felt proud to be known as Katie's sub - the one that other's noticed I did her dishes.
4. At a wedding reception, I had a bit too much to drink and doted on Katie. She looked beautiful and as we talked with three of her single girlfriends I let them know through my actions that I was her man. I felt proud to touch her, embrace her, and keep her close beside me while interacting with them. One asked if I had any bachelor friends. The question implying they liked the way I treated Katie which made me smile.
Being her submissive in so many ways brings out those feelings of appreciation, gratitude, and a general sense of pleasure as being known as 'hers'.