Katie and I have discussed the option of moving from plastic to metal off and on for quite some time and a few days after the 6000 broke she informed me to purchase such a device, which I did later that day. All along, her desire was to put me into a chastity cage that allowed more air and ease of cleaning than the plastic tube. She also is fond of the look of a steel cage enclosing a man's penis. The other selling point was that she wants me encased in a more compact tube that is less revealing. After reading articles from the links below I purchased a Jailbird from maturemetal with only a 2" steel tube. There are excellent articles for those interested in pursuing small steel chastity cages at these links: 1 2.
So, I've been waiting with a mixture of anticipation and apprehension for the arrival of the steel cage. What I've noticed during the past few months when we are intimately close is a decreased desire on her part to make sure I orgasm frequently. It's as if our love-making has really become all about me pleasing her but also ensuring that she brings me to the very edge of orgasm and then keeps me there for many minutes before telling me she's enjoyed me enough for now. Katie's told me she likes the way I act when I'm denied. I guess I'm more doting and attentive. I believe she is correct. What I do know is that when left wanting I crave her. It's like I want to touch, hug, kiss and caress her throughout the day - all the time
I jokingly told her that maybe Christmas would be a nice time for the gift of release - never expecting her to agree. Yet she did. As it appears - at least at the time of this writing - I will be denied for another six-weeks minimum. When asked why she wants to deny me for a time significantly longer than she's ever done, she told me she wants to see what affect seven weeks of tease and denial has on me. I will be venturing into the unknown. I've gone this length of time without release in the past but never while in a love relationship while being teased and especially never while being constantly allowed to please her sexually. I guess I will write more about this over the Christmas holiday.
Only 43 days till Christmas. The countdown til the big holiday will take on a whole new meaning.