We both want each other to tell how much we are loved and appreciated.
We want to spend time with each other. However, the need on my part for both having her tell me she loves and appreciates me as well as my need to be with her is greater. I wonder if I am a bit more insecure than she. I have a sense that is the case. I do need her. I do need to be with her. I do need to touch her. I do need to hear that she appreciates my work. I ache to be with her. I am pretty certain that I view her as my rock and security as well as the dominant woman I so love.
We both love physical touch which makes our desire to hug, kiss, cuddle, sit close to one another, massage (me giving and her receiving) something we both enjoy and don't tire of.
Neither of us has our love kindled primarily when we buy each other gifts.
But Katie loves to be pampered whileI don’t find that a way to feel loved. I find that one discrepancy interesting. She loves my acts of service. Yes, she loves having a sub that is there to love her and do those chores and duties that she cares not to do. She loves to be served. And here am I, her sub, and there to meet that need of hers
Her desire is to serve. My desire is to be with her. Both of our desires is to be touched and to communicate. I love how we mesh as a couple. I think we have wonderfully complimentary personalities to Dominate and submit.
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