- Make every evening hers. (Correct)
- Never complain if she comes home late or goes out to dinner, or other places of entertainment without you. (If I am out alone and you wished you could come, then I want you to tell me but if I am out, don’t complain about when I will return.)
- Your goal: try to make sure your home is a place of peace, order and tranquility where your wife can renew herself in body and spirit. (Correct)
- Don't greet her with complaints and problems. (Correct)
- Don't complain if she's late home for dinner or even if she stays out all night. (Correct)
- Make her comfortable. Have her lean back in a comfortable chair or have her lie down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for her. (Correct)
- Arrange her pillows and offer to take off her shoes. Speak in a low, soothing and pleasant voice. (Correct)
- Don't ask her questions about her actions or question her judgment. (I expect you to voice your opinion, especially if you think I am going to make a poor decision. In the end I will make the decision but I don’t mind hearing your opinion if you have a concern.)
- Never question her integrity. (Correct)
- Remember, she is the master of the house and as such will always exercise her will with fairness and truthfulness. You have no right to question her. (Correct)
Sunday, June 24, 2012
Changes in Katie
Mr SH in a recent post spoke of the neurochemistry of denial. In his post he referenced a site I had never visited: Dreamloverlabs.com. It is a femdom site that is filled with information on ‘training’ a male to serve and turning him into the perfect service sub thus freeing the woman to enjoy life as well as other men (something I don’t advocate). Much of what is written there is not my cup of tea but I did find a few resources to be quite interesting. For example there is a webpage entitled “the perfect husband” and in it is a short listing of a woman’s view of how a perfect husband should be. I pasted the page here, modifying it a bit to reflect exactly how I read it to Katie. I asked her if this is how she felt I should respond as well. What surprised me were her answers. She agreed with each and every statement, only making two comments which I noted parenthetically below.
What struck me after she shared her views with me on the above statements was just how far she as moved in her comfort level of both expecting me to submit to her as well as her comfort level with respect to enjoying her status as the alpha female. Personally, I find her views to be quite enticing, sexy and downright hot. As I’ve said before, there is nothing more appealing for me than to serve a beautiful and confident woman. Her change is not only helping her to enjoy me more but to help me become even more comfortable in submitting to her in ways I didn’t think I could initially.