Yet in many ways we live as we’ve always lived; two people who love one another and are the best of friends. We share as peers. We laugh and interact with friends as if we are a vanilla couple. Yes, even in that setting she expects me to serve her but it is in subtle ways rather than overt acts of submission to her dominance. But things have changed. She is much more comfortable expecting from me than a year ago. She has become comfortable with keeping me in denial as the very fact that I am denied, makes for a better lovemaker. She loves that I stay hard and can become hard in seconds with just the gentle touch or squeeze of her hand. She has become accustomed to leaving the kitchen and relaxing with a glass of wine or tea to read, work, or relax while I prepare the dinner meal.
Our life has changed. It has changed for the better. She is becoming a stronger woman. She is becoming a more confident woman. One of the fears she had when we first started this venture was not wanting to become a bitch. She has become anything but that. She has become so much more of a woman that I could have ever dreamed. She is quiet; almost shy to some, yet she is not one to cross. She fends for herself. She handles business decisions. She knows what she wants in life. Now that she lives in a wife led marriage, she now has the freedom to act and decide without the worry of conflict or repercussions from me for the decisions she now makes.