Thursday, June 27, 2013

Happy Wife Happy Life

At work several months ago I received an email from Katie.  All that it said was 'happy wife, happy life'.  This picture was attached and when I opened it I smiled.  How true that picture is.  To me, it's not a pic about turning over my pay check to her but rather one in which she expects me to give her my all; my self, my life, my love, my devotion, my time, my service.  I love this lady.  I love loving her and by submitting to her I have realized just how much more I am able to love her.  The distractions and temptations that were in my past are minimal.  When I pass another attractive woman, I know that there is no way that she could compare to Katie in expressing love to me - and then there is the steel cage that keeps my genitals locked - that deter me from even thinking about anything more.

I'm away from her now. I haven't seen her for many days but the days apart only make our reunion that much sweeter and more precious.  I hope that if you are a man, that you can express that kind of 'courting' quality love to your wife/woman you hold so dear and do so each and every day.

If you are finding it hard or if your love life has gotten old, if there is a history of pain that has built an emotional wall between the two of you, I hope you both can sit and talk about how to change your future from being like your recent past. Life is short. Your love need not be strained. There is hope for what you once had to return  once more.  Maybe letting her take charge of you and your marriage is a solution worth exploring.  Think about it. That choice is not one that signafies you are weak, but rather are so very strong.  How many men do you know have the guts to trust to that degree by letting the woman they have pledged their eternal love to serve as the woman who will direct you, and direct you together.

I wish you well and personally I can't wait to see my Katie in a few days.

I'm Hers

9 comments:

  1. IH,

    You express your feelings so beautifully. Please don't laugh, but I'm somewhat of an emotional guy, I actually almost cry for a sad (or happy) movie and my eyes welled up when I read this blog post. The intensity of your feelings for Mrs Katie are so strong you want to tell the world about them. Love like that is so wonderful.

    Your reply to one of my previous comments really struck a cord. I should just put aside my fears and redouble my efforts to be the best submissive husband I can be so there can be no doubt to her of my love and my desire to serve her. Although our online friendship (I do consider you a friend) is just words on a screen, you are an inspiration to me. I wish the very best for the both of you!

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  2. Wishful4, thanks for those words. They meant a lot. You know, I got an email from someone months ago and he told me that he viewed me in the same category as George Clooney! I laughed. I mean, I really laughed. I'm just an ordinary guy. Nothing special. But I do happen to be married to a wonderful woman that I do love and who loves and guides me well.

    And the online friendship is mutual. I look forward when I see that you've commented on a post and shared your own thoughts. I also understand what it is that you mean when you feel like you are walking on egg shells with your wife over the D/s thing. I'm not on egg shells but sometimes I wish that she'd do it 'my' way. But that's when I need to step back and just let go. I need to just 'be'. Being is a good thing. Being is obeying. Being is letting go and trusting. I hope you can do the same.
    Thanks again for sharing.

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    1. You put it very well when you said " Think about it. That choice is not one that signifies you are weak, but rather are so very strong. How many men do you know have the guts to trust to that degree by letting the woman they have pledged their eternal love to serve as the woman who will direct you, and direct you together." This is so true, many people who have not experienced the benefits to a marriage or relationship when submitting to a woman, would surely see us submissive men as weak. I feel stronger, more confident and happier than I have ever been since I have openly and honestly given my life to Miss Jessica.
      Great Post.

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    2. Thanks Eric, the easy road is the one most traveled - as Robert Frost put it - it's the harder one that takes more courage. I am slowly becoming more comfortable and accepting of myself as a submissive man - meaning, I am less apprehensive to tell others that Katie runs the show. I am not at the point where I would tell others publicly that I am a submissive man, nor is Katie comfi telling her girlfriends she is the Mistress Wife, or dominant woman. Yet those that know us, know that she is the one in charge. I'm glad that you found peace in a similar role. Enjoy it. And use it as a way to love Miss Jessica even more. That is really the value of male submission - the increased devotion of a man to his woman. As Katie often says "what woman wouldn't want this life"
      Take care Eric.

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    3. I can relate with how you describe your comfort levels with others knowing the dynamic in your relationship. Miss Jessica and I are the same way, neither of advertise that she is in charge,but we don't try to hind it either. To the people closest to us, it is probably not hard to see, as I am usually the one keeping the house clean, cooking and such. When friends are over or family, Miss Jessica does not hold back in requesting I fetch her a glass of water or something. I think that her mother knows, as she has asked me about the list that was left on the counter for me to complete, and I responded by telling her just as your post said, " Happy Wife, Happy Life", and her mom just smiled at me. Since that point Miss Jessica been even more forward about demanding things of me in front of her mother. It really does not bother me, I kind of get a charge from it actually. I am sure in a few years, things will be even more open as far as our roles, it just takes time, and before you know it it becomes natural to be seen to others as you are when alone.
      Regarding what Katie said ,"what woman wouldn't want this life", I think this attitude becomes more and more prevalent as a woman continues to see the benefits of a female led relationship, and she is right, what woman would not want this life.
      But from one submissive man to another, the real question is, What man would not want this life?

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  3. I always enjoy reading your posts. They resemble the relationship that I have with my wife in so many ways though I could never say it as well as you do in your post. Happy Wife Happy Life is one of my wife's favorite sayings. Always good stuff on here....R R

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    1. RR, I think you are not alone. I often hear from other men that make similar comments about their relationship as it pertains to what I write. I think many women are conservative, quiet, a little unsure of their dominant powers but love having a man that adores and loves them. I'm glad you can relate. Stop by again and comment should a future post interest you

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  4. My wife seems to have a renewed surge of interest in being in charge in our bedroom play. I don't think we're going back, she likes how I am when I am constantly horny for her. I am a better husband. I wish this weren't so, but we seem to be better off with her denying my orgasm. When I do come, I "drop off" so much that she regrets it. It's fun pleasing her all the time, I get a great thrill from it.

    I would also say that I agree about the times apart. It raises the bar of our passions and when we reunite, our chemistry gets elevated. Enjoy the ride of missing her, and the excitement of your reunion. BTW, being apart is the only time I am consistently locked in the chastity device. That definitely moves the game up as well!

    Cheers

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    1. Lovetosubmit, I'm so glad to hear that your wife doesn't ever 'want to go back' as you put it. I think when a woman feels that and it reallty sinks deep into their heart, dominance really takes hold. I think the next step is maintaining that horniness and devotion that you obviously are showing to her that she loves so much. I think I just said this in an earlier post comment with in the last few days but as Katie says, "what woman wouldn't love this life". I hope yours feels the same and makes the effor to keep you forever under her thumb. Enjoy your life as a sub. Its the best.

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