The emotion of that day has diminished but the memories of it, to some degree, still remain. It was a day of Katie getting to do what she wanted - some of which was mundane like picking up a few groceries - and the rest, just an ordinary day for us where she determined how we would spend it together. She decided when we were getting up, what time we left for the fair, where we walked, what things there she wanted to see, what we ate, when we left, if we were heading home or going somewhere else. She drove. She chose our destinations. She bought what she wanted when we shopped and ate out.
We spent our day together but she lived it as if she were alone even though I was with her the entire time. She knew she didn't have to worry about me telling her to do things or go places that she didn't wish to go. I don't tell. I do make suggestions or remind her when she's told me "make sure I don't forget to do this while we are out", but I don't argue or disagree with her choices. It wasn't that she didn't want my input and it wasn't like she didn't go to see some things at the fair that were more my interest than hers, but we both knew that she was the one that would make the decisions of the day.
That evening as the movie started to play, I slid off the sofa and onto the ground taking off her shoes. I sat between her legs with hers draped over either shoulder and spent time massaging at first one foot and leg and then the other. Katie slipped out of her jeans and sat back, letting me massage and lightly touch her entire leg. Yet our focus was centered on the movie. We chatted. We didn't get kinky. We didn't even think about her being my dominant wife or me being her submissive husband. We just enjoyed time together as a couple that love one another. She loves touch and I love caring for her in this way. We ended that evening heading up to bed with both of us having our emotional 'tanks' filled. She got to be served. I had the privilege to serve.
I wouldn't wish for a life any different than what I have now. She's beautiful both inside and out and fills me completely.
Oh, and just before we fell asleep I asked, "How serious do you take your ownership of me?"
Who wouldn't sleep soundly after hearing that?! Life is good