Wednesday, August 27, 2014

Just Checking

It seems as if I never have a dull morning.  Today when I awoke and headed into the bathroom I noticed that there were no panties set out on the counter for me. Knowing this was a workday that caught me by surprise. Assuming Katie had simply forgot to set them out I texted her with the short message: "Lock?". "Yes" came her reply a few seconds later. Smiling I did as I always do on days I work. I locked up.

Shortly after seeing Katie our paths crossed and she reached down and grabbed my crotch. It was a gentle grasp, almost unnoticeable, but I knew what it was. She was checking to make sure I had obeyed her instructions. I love those little checks. I love them because I know she cares. Then just before I left for work we kissed and unexpectedly she reached for my fly unzipped it and peered inside. I didn't know what she was doing, and then it dawned on me. "What are you doing?" I asked. "Checking to see what underwear you have on." Seeing that I was wearing something a little more colorful then bland and nondescript and knowing that I was wearing shorts, Katie, part instructed and part warned me how I was/was not to sit. I was told to keep my legs together so as to not allow someone to serendipitously look up my pant leg and see periwinkle underwear covered in polka dots.

I said "yes ma'am", gave her a final kiss, and headed to the car smiling broadly. She made my day and it took her all of ten seconds to do so. I know she cares. I know she loves me. I know she accepts me as the submissive man I am. Most of all I know she expects me to obey. What more could I ever ask?

I'm Hers


  1. Loved it. Thank you.

  2. Do you unlock every night? And lock every morning? Or only on the days you work? Thanks. J

    1. Katie's rule for me being in chastity is this: anytime then I will be away from her even if for only an hour I am to be locked. That rule is hard and fast and never changes. So, to answer your question I am always locked when ever I go to work. Additionally, I am off and locked during weekends. If I have to run errands apart from Katie then I will be locked that day. However, sometimes she chooses to lock me just because she can. On a day when I am unlocked if I ask if I can wear panties, her answer will always be only if you lock. For Katie wearing panties means that I will be locked securely.
      Practically what this means is that I am often locked six, sometimes seven days a week but recently never at night. The strictness with which she keeps me secure seems to vary from month-to-month. What I have written above has been our pattern for the past several months.

    2. God bless you ImHers! Thanks for your reply! If you don't mind me asking, is one of the main reasons for the locking up, your faithfulness and to prevent any "mishaps"?
      Thanks, J

    3. J,
      Katie locks me for several reasons. Yes, one reason is to keep me safe and free from any temptation. It's interesting being locked when around other women. You realize just how off limits you are when you know you have a hunk of steel encasing your goods. Second Katie will sometimes tell me that she locks me simply because she can. It's one way she can express her power as my dominant partner. Finally, I think she locks me because she knows I enjoy being locked. And in fact I do. It makes me feel submissive when I am encased and, as Kathy pointed out on a recent comment, a cage around a man's little soldier is akin to a wedding band around his ring finger. They are reminders of commitment and status. Great comment. I enjoyed answering it. :-)

    4. "Katie locks me for several reasons..."
      I'm Hers,
      I would say that I am locked up for mostly the same reasons. I am fairly used to it, but wearing a device still boosts my submissive mood. Just recently at a luncheon (with coworkers; mostly men) the thought popped into my mind that I was probably the only man in the restaurant wearing a device (I suppose it is possible there could have been other men). I'm not sure the thought really meant anything in particular, and I dropped it as I began speaking to someone.

    5. FL, I often think that thought. I'm sure I am right most of the time, but I'd personally love to meet another locked man at a function such as that. It would just be fun and quite frankly - supportive to know I am not the only submissive man at the social function.

  3. Excellent brother. I know exactly the feeling. Yesterday, fully dressed for worked, Mistress K reached behind me to make sure I was wearing her plug. I don't think really thought that I would disobey, but I just love her little checks. We are both lucky boys!

    1. I read your last post about having to wear a plug for a morning at work. I never thought that it would be possible to check on that but now that I think about it I guess it would be quite easy, similar to the way Katie checks to make sure I am locked and secure. We do have fantastically wonderful wives!

  4. Do you suppose that sometime in the future, when you just happen to be randomly reading some nondescript article analyzing the politics at the end of the cold war period and you chance to run across the phrase ‘doveryai, no proveryai, “trust, but verify” ’, you will suddenly experience an aha moment as it will suddenly have a much broader meaning for you? It is surprising how the larger picture things in life also apply to our everyday lives. It seems to be that may just be similar to what you experienced. Thanks, it made me smile for a bit.

    1. JT,
      You must be one smart man. Here you are reading about a complex historical, geopolitical time in our world history, interpreting Russian phrases, and making parallels to alternative lifestyles. You to make me smile when I realized how you got from point A two point B in the comment you posted. Oh, and by the way, I have no idea what a "complex historical geopolitical" anything really means. But it did sound good though, didn't it? :-)

  5. Dominant Woman checking in again - Happy Labor Day to everyone!

    Thought it would be fun to post the lyrics to the song 'Cater 2 U' by Destiny's Child (Beyonce was part of this trio).

    Wouldn't it be great to have a submissive man sing it to his Dominant Woman?! The sub man would only have to reverse the genders in a few lines after which it becomes the perfect FLR/WLR song!


    "Cater 2 U"

    [Verse 1 Beyonce]
    Baby I See You Working Hard
    I Want To Let You Know I'm Proud,
    Let You Know That I Admire What You Do
    The More If I Need To Reassure You, My Life Would Be Purposeless Without You (Yeah)
    If I Want It (Got It)
    When I Ask You (You Provide It)
    You Inspire Me To Be Better
    You Challenge Me For The Better
    Sit Back And Let Me Pour Out My Love Letter

    Let Me Help You
    Take Off Your Shoes
    Untie Your Shoestrings
    Take Off Your Cufflinks (Yeah)
    What You Want To Eat Boo? (Yeah)
    Let Me Feed You
    Let Me Run Your Bathwater
    Whatever You Desire, I'll Aspire
    Sing You A Song
    Turn The Game On
    I'll Brush Your Hair
    Help Put Your Do Rag On
    Want A Foot Rub? (Yeah)
    You Want A Manicure?
    Baby I'm Yours I Want To Cater To You Boy

    Let Me Cater To You
    Cause Baby This Is Your Day
    Do Anything For My Man
    Baby You Blow Me Away
    I Got Your Slippers, Your Dinner, Your Dessert, And So Much More
    Anything You Want Just Let Me Cater To You
    Inspire Me From The Heart,
    Can't Nothing Tear Us Apart
    You're All I Want In A Man;
    I Put My Life In Your Hands
    I Got Your Slippers, Your Dinner, Your Dessert, And So Much More
    Anything You Want, I Want To Cater To You

    [Verse 2 Kelly]
    Baby I'm Happy You're Home,
    Let Me Hold You In My Arms
    I Just Want To Take The Stress Away From You
    Making Sure That I'm Doing My Part (Oh)
    Boy Is There Something You Need Me To Do (Oh)
    If You Want It (I Got It)
    Say The Word (I Will Try It)
    I Know Whatever I'm Not Fulfilling (Oh)
    Another Woman Is Willing (Oh)
    I'm Going To Fulfill Your Mind, Body, And Spirit

    I Promise You (Promise You)
    I'll Keep Myself Up (Oh)
    Remain The Same Chick (Yeah)
    You Fell In Love With (Yeah)
    I'll Keep It Tight, I'll Keep My Figure Right
    I'll Keep My Hair Fixed, Keep Rocking The Hottest Outfits
    When You Come Home Late Tap Me On My Shoulder, I'll Roll Over
    Baby I Heard You, I'm Here To Serve You (I'm Lovin It, I'm Lovin It)
    If It's Love You Need, To Give It Is My Joy
    All I Want To Do, Is Cater To You Boy


    [Bridge Michelle]
    I Want To Give You My Breath, My Strength, My Will To Be Here
    That's The Least I Can Do,
    Let Me Cater To You
    Through The Good (Good)
    The Bad (Through The Bad)
    The Ups And The Downs (Ups And Downs)
    I'll Still Be Here For You
    Let Me Cater To You
    Cause You're Beautiful (You're Beautiful)
    I Love The Way You Are (You Are)
    Fulfill Your Every Desire (Desire)
    Your Wish Is My Command (Command)
    I Want To Cater To My Man
    Your Heart (Your Heart)
    So Pure Your Love Shines Through(Shines Through)
    The Darkness We'll Get Through (So Much)
    So Much Of Me Is You (Is You)
    I Want To Cater To My Man

    [Chorus Out]

  6. What a great song! Isn't it interesting how certain lyrics appeal to someone, depending on what prominent life event one is experiencing. Obviously you have dominance on your mind :)

    Thanks so much for sharing!