Thursday, January 15, 2015
I looked at my schedule for Friday and realized I could get off earlier than usual. The trade-off to that would be that I would have to be at work earlier if I wanted my weekend to start sooner rather than later. I asked Katie what I should do and she put it back on me, telling me to decide.
I had thoughts but wasn't sure that I should share them but decided to. I told her that if I knew she'd want to make love in the morning I would rather work later but if she didn't I would go in earlier so I could have a Friday evening with her. She smiled. I smiled. Then she dropped the bomb.
"I can't think that far ahead," was her answer.
Then she made me feel guilty and added, "I thought you'd want to sleep in and snuggle with me."
Geez! She gave me a choice and I expressed my feelings and now I feel selfish. Well, maybe I am and maybe she was justified in stating the obvious – that I was selfish and that she never thinks about having sex that far ahead. And besides, my decision to work early versus late had everything to do with making me feel good rather than looking out for her.
Sometimes I just can't win. And then again, sometimes I shouldn’t win. And so I tried to repair the damage, sending her a text after I left for work today:
“I could get home from work earlier and then we could cuddle, snuggle, play kissy-face and kissy-your-pussy, rub our naked bodies all over one another, put my protrusion inside your intrusion and have a wild and crazy time and then …. You could relax on a heated massage table with candles and soft music while your submissive husband tends to you obediently and properly by giving you a long massage.”
And then I added, “Or, we could watch the 9 o’clock, 10 o’clock and 11 o’clock news and weather.” (you know, a girl always needs options – a way to gently say ‘no’. I thought I’d give her the option so as to not press her too tightly into a corner :).
Katie responded, “Decisions, decisions, LOL”
“I’m leaning towards the 9, 10 and 11 o’clock news option myself,” I replied.
Which way are you leaning?
Yessss!! So things may work out for the best after all.
Have a wonderful weekend. Mine looks like it might start off just fine.