Friday, June 19, 2015
Why Blog? Why Read? Why Comment?
I was up putting laundry away tonight when the topic came to mind. Just prior, I was checking the sidebar of my blog to see if any new posts had gone up recently. It was probably the forth of fifth time I did so today. I enjoy reading what others have to say, regardless of whether or not I agree with them. I also enjoy writing posts although I sometimes struggle with coming up with meaningful things to say. I was thinking about ya’ll and why do you read? Probably for the same reason I read. Why do some of you comment? Probably for the same reason I write.
I believe we do this because we need the support of one another. I write because I want to convey to others that this way of living is truly wonderful. I wouldn’t trade my life as Katie’s submissive for anything. I texted her not more than an hour ago, “I love having you as my Mistress. I love being your sub,” and she responded, “I love my sub.” We are passionately in love and much of our connection has to do with me obeying and her leading.
There are far too many marriages falling apart because two individuals who were once very much in love are no longer. Their lives have slowly taken divergent paths. They don’t talk the way they once did. They don’t enjoy one another the way they did years before. They don’t see eye to eye; they argue more; make love less, and generally aren’t has happy just being together as they were during that first year after they married.
I’ve received many emails – mostly from men, but not all, who have partners/spouses who they want to submit to or dominate but don’t have a receptive partner. There is nothing wrong with a man submitting – obeying – listening to – loving – deferring to – his wife. Let me repeat – there is nothing wrong with that at all. So many women don’t want to hear that and yet I dare say there is not a woman that doesn’t want to be listened to, valued, and have her ‘honey-do’ list completed. Isn’t that a form of domination? In my mind it is. Why not take the plunge and embrace all you really want – control and a husband that wants to be close to you, wants to listen to you, wants to love you and wants to treat you like he did while you two were dating?
I’m getting off track, but leave it to say that I write to share my life with Katie BECAUSE I want to entice others on the fence to consider a similar relationship. I hope you read blogs in order to gain support, encouragement, comfort and hope that you can, or might someday, live a similar life. We all need the support of others. I hope this blog and others like it support you. I also find support by the comments you make. I love reading your comments – even when you lambaste me for dumb things I say or for things for which you disagree. That’s OK. I often tell Katie, “Can I read you a comment from Scott?” or “I think RR and I would get along well.” Or “ut-oh, Lady Grey wrote something!” or, “Hey Katie. Kathy commented on a post, or, or, or.
There are so many of you that I call ‘friends’ because of your repeated visits. There are a few others that have come and gone and I wish would come back. Know that you are not just writing to me but to all that read. On an average day 500-1000 people will visit this page. Think about that. Your comments can also influence others.
Thanks for giving me an audience. Thanks for sharing. To the hundreds of you that don’t – your thoughts have value – and I wish you would consider joining the discussions.
Have a wonderful weekend!