He thanked me and then asked in a text, "What's Chorma?" I smiled and sent him a reply.
"Its an app that Katie uses to help me keep track of the chores she wants me to do around the house."
"Haha, that is so funny."
We chatted back and forth a bit and I told him how helpful that app was for me because I really am a list person and having a list that keeps reminding me until it's completed is quite helpful. As an aside, I'm exploring the Wunderlist app with Katie as we think we can better sync our phones and lives using that app rather than the Chorma app. If you happen to use Wunderlist and have comments to share, i'd love to hear them.
But back to my son. A few days later he texted telling me his wife was out kayaking all day and felt so sore, What should I do?, He asked.
And so I responded, "Go get yourself some nice coconut oil or similar and give her a nice long massage like the good husband I know you are."
He bucked at that but I told him it really would help with muscle soreness and the clearing of wastes from all the exercise his wife had just endured. A few minutes later he agreed and said he was going to do it.
I texted him the following day asking if she enjoyed the massage. "I have gave her a long one. She liked it a lot."
I replied, "I did the same thing for Katie for over an hour."
He sent me a smiley face.
Spreading the word about femdom doesn't need to be a kinky thing. All one needs is a little honesty and a foundation that is based around the premise that she (your wife/partner) really is worth loving in ways that please her most. Sharing an app that has to do with Katie keeping on top of me with my chores or commenting that I too give my wife massages are gentle ways of illustrating to my children that I do things to take care of my wife.
I've shared in the past about talks I've had with my daughter and since that time she's asked me during phone conversations such things as, "Did Katie approve of you doing that?" or "was that OK with Katie?"
Never have I openly told them I am her submissive husband or she my dominant wife. Rather I limit my word choices to such things as "I'll need to check with Katie first," or, "if that's OK with Katie than I'll do that," or "I really don't have money to spend unless Katie lets me," and so on. The bottom line of what I want my children to understand is that decisions flow through my wife and then out to me and not vice versa. So far I've had none of my children question our lifestyle or question me about living with an overbearing wife. They don't because the see how very happy I am and how loved their dad is by his wife.
I hope you take time this week to share your femdom, FLR, WLM, D/s, Mistress/slave or whatever other term you use to describe what the two of you share, with others. Spread the word.